As for me and my family, we will serve the Lord.(Joshua 24:15)
My wife holds a measure and standard of practicality and wisdom in my obedience to God's call. She is not the final voice of God, but she, in her integrity and righteousness, is a vital part in the confirmation process.
My wife is like Zipporah, the spouse who saved Moses from being killed as he went down the mountain on his way to follow the Lord, because Moses failed to follow through the details that God has already established in his life. (Exodus 4:24-25)
Yes, God called me to follow Him, but He didn't intend that I violate the other rules and norms and standards that God has already set in place. In keeping all these pillars, the Lord called me to fulfill a task where these pillars are a fixed set of values. Prayer: Dear Lord, I pray that you move among my family, between my wife and me. I pray that your plan will influence us both, a family calling.
I pray that we will be unanimous in submitting to your Will, and that we will confirm your Will to one another, and be encouraged by each other's personal encounter of You, towards the fulfillment of Your Will.